what can be a right way to donate or do charity

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What is charity or donation?

It’s a willingness of a person to help others with the surplus or sufficient treasure he has. It could be in many forms apart from monetary donations. Volunteering is one good example it’s a way to donate yourself ,your sweat, your efforts.

Ways to help:

-Select a child – donate for his education

-select a family – help them grow by being an advisor /educator

-open up opportunities for the weak class (cloth stitching etc.)

-educating someone in your free time. This is the best donation one can do

-volunteer in food donation or activity where educated person is required like teaching.

-open or create a platform which can be easily consumed by the weak class to get work or help.

Many a times we  think of donating and somehow do not trust an NGO or an ashram. Many a time its true as well that behind the curtains of NGO there is a black to white money conversion market. I personally was part of an NGO whose owner died in a car accident due to drug abuse case. This we did not know until the whole scandal was published in news paper.

I once went to the ashram and by looking at it, it seemed like it was more than taken care of and still people poured in to donate. My point here is that again there is a imbalance between the ashram with less popularity and the ones residing in the heart of the city with greater popularity and there too its like Jain ashram , Christian ashram and so on. Where people from one sect will support their preferred ashrams.

Then question is how do you figure out the best way to donate?

The answer is you will have to be patience and invest some time in finding who are really the needy ones and I would suggest one must survey his own locality.

One way is to give money and get away with the situation. Nowadays begging is like a small business. The money they get is not used for the right purpose. The agents in between will get their commission and the beggar will remain beggar for a lifetime. See begging should not become a habit instead they must be empowered with some sort of job or work which will help them as a consistent source of income and slowly they can improve their lives. We must not encourage these type of beggars who want to have this easy money. Someone who is ill , someone who is disabled must get the help from society but young men and women who are fit n fine must not continue such work. I have seen beggars asking for milk packets , pen and stationaries which they return to the shopkeepers to get back the money with some commission to the shop owner.  At least in a city if one is willing then he/she can get any simple job like housekeeping or household jobs. And I think those who are really willing to out in effort and feel like they should earn their bread with respect do not find it difficult to get out of such adverse conditions.

Basically your help should be in such a way that it should empower the underprivileged and not get them in a comfort zone. many places which serve free food have become a hub for lazy and ill motivated people. give them food for some work instead. anything for free is undervalued.

Its more of a nurture thing rather than one time investment. Like how you grow or convert a small sapling into a tree. It’s a time taking activity but the results are sweet and long lasting. Once the tree is mature it will bear fruits year on year. Metaphorically I want to explain this case you can consider supporting a family in terms of money ,guidance or job support. In turn when this family becomes self sufficient they will definitely help others and so on. 

Few examples: donation in temple is required for its maintenance but popular temples need to give back the surplus amount they are gathering. People as well should understand that God is created by us and a healthy maintenance will not require such huge donations.

Hygienic food/water is an important and basic requirement — this primarily must be met before covering any other aspects.

Hail human beings !!

When do we start thinking– > when we have a problem right !! Till that point we ignore all our vibes, sixth sense and intuitions. And unfortunately when we are sad dismissed then we start to think else we don’t have a time in happiness to think about anything or any aspect of life , nature or society.

When you are diseased, or bankrupt or lose your job. You ponder on to that situation , now even that is temporarily for that specific situation. Whereas there is no one factor that leads you to dismissal but there are lot of factors that combine to create something called trouble-situation or problem. Also a problems magnitude can vary from person to person for someone getting a mobile lost is like someone stole their organ but for some they  just take it as misfortune.

Well lot of damages can be recovered by money and some damage needs emotional attention. Now unfortunately you can’t have both aspects in your life. It’s not like you can’t you have not designed  life that  way. With ambitions, hunger and greed  for more; that emotional quotient just gets lost somewhere  in time.

That is why a poor has a lot of emotional consent whereas the rich has only the money mind.

The first category of poor people are still in a safe game because they will not self-murder themselves. They have a will to live the next  day and face the problems. Whereas the  money  mind-set can make you miserable. There is no real connection for rich people even with their own family members. See again, I am not saying it’s not possible to have that balance but unfortunately it’s the nature of human or money that makes you like that. It’s the people you are surrounded with who will make it even more difficult to have that balance.

Anyways we are not here to talk on rich vs poor. We are here to think how this life was supposed to function and where should we have headed for.

We are endlessly expanding , there needs to be a stop to that coz excess of anything doesn’t do good for the growth. We say we are engineers and we don’t even know how to keep the equilibrium our own body and mind.

Greed has just devastated this planet

There  are thousands of odd research going  on and how many of them are towards making this mother earth a better  place. I believe none. Onto the  name of research it’s just black money conversion to white  money. In fact Our quality of food has degraded and our disease count  has  only increased. Not physical diseases but more on to the level of mental health with lifestyle tag. we are  just owning and owning. Most of the clothes we use nowadays are not even meant for human body. For that we need that active sense  like a dog who knows atleast what to eat what  not to eat. What we  are  eating  is just disaster Maida ( Flour) and maida and fried stuff.

So eventually we are earning and then later in life spending on our medical bills and health. Don’t you think this is a major conspiracy at government level itself rather I would say at the big industrialist level who are bribing the govt to pass policy  such as allowing processed foods, packaged food ,alcohol and toxic substances and banning naturally available marijuana. And  we  middle class people have a tendency to believe in everything that is approved by govt or which has an advertising  on TV. 90% of the  stuff being  sold  are not event meant for human consumption. Where are  raw vegetables and fruits in market/malls? there are just artificial flavoured juices and their nice photographs on the wrapper.

In this vicious cycle we are taking birth and ending  our lives just to eat shit and  die.  That’s still fine but reproducing  at  this  scale added with such huge life expectancy is not going to help in anyway. We also need to try limiting ourselves from expanding  our human print everywhere. Now next is people have already started booking real estate on planet Mars. I mean look at what  we have done to our own  planet and now you want to destroy that as well. Hail human beings !!

Request sensor not working – TATA Tigor 2022/23 model

Just got my first free service done from TATA authorized centre and I am facing this new problem of request sensor not working

Checked for solution on internet

There were few solutions but did not match my problem type.

one was related to issues during lockdown — this is due to not using the car for long time. Mine was continuously running so i definitely did not had this problem.

Another one was related to a carbon deposit on the buttons .

I kept thinking about the problem and then it appeared to me that i was having rattling noise issue at the driver door.

The mechanic had opened the door cabinet and we found a nut lying there which was making this sound.

During this opening of cabinet there were lot of connections that were removed and re-connected back. I was sure it is something to do with the connector but i did not want to go again to the service center for this simple issue as it will take the entire day.

so i thought of checking it myself. I opened my bike’s toolbox and tried to open the car door cabinet myself. unscrewed the control section and tried to pull the cabinet and voila it opened.

Now i tried to peep inside the cabinet and found an open connector. i knew this was the one but did not know where to connect it. After further pulling the cabinet saw an assembly to plug it. IT WORKED !!! 🙂

Tales of pune university

Clicked at thane station ..saw these rendom guys preparing for NT (Network theory)

Appendix: PU : Pune univ , NT : Network theory

Studying at pu and more importantly passing at pu is an altogether massive achievement. Here u can get all sorts of trauma nightmare Goosebumps and sometime all feelings at once.

The problem with this univ is like..the tension of even semesters are always greater than the odd semesters…there you are trying to write your first sem paper and realizing that if u don’t clear it this sem…. Next sem will be a nightmare and trust me it will… Coz in the next sem there are 90% chances that this backlog will come sandwiched between the even sem papers and spending three consecutive sleepless nights.. This feeling itself will make  any student shit in his pants. And unfortunately..well this should not happen even to our worst enemies, suppose u have 2 backlogs of odd sem… U r done!! Done for life
Its been 4 yrs since I’ve been out of college and working but still even now sometimes while asleep I get this horrifying nightmares of not reaching for exam on time or say I’ve just completed a single unit and I slept, when i wake up in the morning i m like fuck me!!
But the moments that this univ has given me are beyond words.. The highs and also the lows that i have felt here is simply out of this world.

There was this subject called NT network theory. Trust me if u are not able to clear it in 1st attempt. You’ll probably end up getting a drop and exactly this thing happened  to me and to my closest colleague’s from etx and entc. This subject is like M3 of engg, if you clear it good..  If you dont ur life will suck like hell.

After attempting this subject for consecutive 5 attempts I personally was soo devastated and had lost my faith in this subject that at times i used to just give up my hopes on engg. But brave hearts never surrender and i kept on studying practicing for the subject each time with extra enthusiasm. During my 5th attempt i was damn sure that i have nailed it but guess wat again dismay.. Failure and this time i had no clue of what had gone wrong. I was in a situation i could not even explain. It was painful and disturbing no amount of friend’s condolence was going to work this time not even the chilled beer.

One big reason for pu having so much of money is their Reval scheme. They have really got rich and hence famous probably due to this one scheme. Its like an IPL cricketing season for them, lot of economy pouring in post every sem. Univ has this scheme to play wit your emotions, after all who wants to have the sore feeling of not filling the reval and looking at their colleagues who made it trough during the reval. Soo here again i had no other option but to fill this option and even this time like the last 4 times i was hopeless on the results. The positive results are 1 in 20 sometimes 1 in 50 so its like a lucky draw or a lottery.  U mite win or loose …mostly loose. Again this reval shit is soo funny.  You get the reval results few days before ur next semester exams soo ultimately  u have to study for that subject the entire semester. It kills your time and maybe gift you with another kt.
Funny part is there was this guy giving his backlog and someone came in exam howling from distance Rameeeezzz…. Tra paper nikaalll gayaaa haiii!! That guy in no time got up and swoosh left the exam hall with that like a boss look.
5 days were remaining for the nt exam and this was going to be my 6th attempt for NT.  I was like Goddd how m i going to clear this shit.  It was really taking a toll on me and this time it cud have been a second drop if i don’t clear it. I was like seriously in need of some magic, some blessing.

One more funny part on reval is that the reval dates keep getting postponed till the time you are literally attending the exam of ur reval subject. Soo happend in my case from 1st week may month it got postponed to 2nd and so on till finally it came on 4th week.
The reval day has arrived. As soon as the Notice-boards are up with the results there is soo much of chaos,anxiety in people. Now you need to understand that This chaos is not due to  the ones who have not applied for reval but are more intrested in your results… #Human nature,.  Anyways the floors notice board was flooded with fingers trying to reach out for their number and I m like nervous and curious at the same time. I want to see it but i dont wanna get disappointed.  After some time things settle down and i go over and check i see my name in one corner below pratibha s.. I close my eyes for a second and after opening my eyes… BOOM!! I had just cleared the most diff part of my engg..for next 30 seconds i was enthralled and was in a peaceful freefall moment. I had made it….wooSsshhh such a gr8 relief.  Life time achievement !!!

Some simple points to remember- PHOTOgraphy

photography is not just about capturing feeling moment emotion its also about understanding the whole scene around.
There are times when u just click click n click and even out of the 1000 pics you have taken, none are able to
satisfy your vision or expectation.

As time passes u start realizing wat exactly you wanna capture and what details you want out of it
for eg bird photography …now even here u have some limitations like…some ppl like the bird to be in action,
flattering, squashing through the water, hunting like a wild eagle, or fishing with their long beaks
there can be soo much even inside just bird photography domain but what will quench your thought process is
the only thing that matters.

sometimes its also very important to feel the environment and just be with it for sometime keeping your gadgets and lenses away
from yourself.

give it a try !! you can save a lot

when the government is already looting soo much we need to be a lil smart in doing things and saving each hardly earned penny . coz saving in one way is like earning.

The market is filled up with people who r meant to solve your life problem but they don’t really do that instead they would take it to a completely unsolvable level. In my case I am scared of doctors … no not from the injection o stuff like dat :p , thing is most of the times i feel doctors are experimenting on us , specially the new ones . For one normal cough problem they’ll shoot like 10 types of medicine( 4-5 tablets n cough syrups n bla bla…shit) .Now the probability of recovering becomes less than catching a new side effect all together, which means you went to cure one disease and got many other as bonus … and similarly for other things too the same rule follows.

so basically we need to be  a bit smart n understand on what exactly we want and how we want it done…!!

so here are few things we can follow to save

every point is followed by an example. if you come up with better points and examples do revert in the comment box … thanks 🙂 in advance

1. learn about things and apply your common sense : most of the things get solved by just a little bit of common sense and the will to do it.

eg. I had a fone issue . my fone speaker wasnt working. so now u wd expect me to go to a service centre, yes it is an option which would leave you about 1 months without your customized fone, without which life would be boaring as hell . so I thought of taking care of the problem myself . i opened up the casing and found a half open screw which apparently was near the speaker section, so i just tightened it thats it !! woopy its working ..back to normal.

2. spend in tools : they will save a lot of your effort, time and money

eg. lot of things like drilling , or unscrewing or any bla bla thing can be done with basic tools like drill machine , cutter, paste n stuff … just try maintaing a good workshop in some corner of ur room….

3.Ask the technician about the problem and learn , spread general awareness about fraud technician.

Most of the time it soo happens we give our vehicles at service centre for repair or normal servicing. Now even though they mite be authorized centres still half of the time the engine oil is unchanged and most of the problems are left unresolved. In such case having knowledge about things is always helpful. Knowing general things about the vehicle you drive bike/car can help you sum-times when you get stuck in some deserted place . Also wen u are alone then normals stuff like cooking,operating a washing machine can help :p

This is a real boaring blog… but still i thot someone mite just benefit fm this & so lets not leave it unshared with the internet !!

social media chaos ; its After-effects & rising restlessness

This shit has been waiting in the draft section since like eternity so lets completely throw it to u guyzz

its been almost a decade since we have started entering into this social virtual reality. The addiction level has risen soo high that people have started quoting the basic human requirement as.
ROTI
KAPDA
MAKAAN (DOSt ka *)

GURLFRIEND (optional 😛 )
INTERNET*  & CONDOM(Latest) … fcourse 😛 .. #RIP indian population

Even there is very famous quote mentioned by Sir.Einstein comparing technology and social behavior.

we are growing up with a culture where we the human want to do every-thing that’s possible in one life unlike the previous world where a man would dedicate his complete life to one single cause. #such-boredom  (Dude get a life :v )

we basically want to do more in less time and be successful all the time ..which in itself sounds like a big IRONY 😛

Now to cover all your needs ,we have a business platform which encourages people to follow their dreams
like we have the holiday packages which can get you around the world within few lakhs .. . so basically we have risen up with the speed of activity and availability. people have used technology to make fortunes and that same tech (social websites) has ruined this huge young generation.
plus you have the e-commerce where anything and everything can be done sitting at home. In all we are saving a lot of time with the technological advent and on the other side we are investing that same time on social networks . Well undoubted fully even that is a part of life but maybe we forget the bounds or the limit to which we should be part of this fake world .

One thing is sure which is also proven by researchers from all around the world. we are growing up with more number of idiots o fools and the only reason behind it is the generation following , getting diverted to things that is inappropriate at that level.The IQ level is immensely falling people have started loosing their imaginative and creative skills . You mite have heard educational institutes and business organizations blocking few sites(Mostly porn and social network). Few years back the block was on porn related sites but today porn on internet in not a problem rather it is the social networking .

Focus is some extinct word from the dictionary. I m not sure about the world’s population  but 90% Indian users browse  internet (the greatest gift to human kind) just for FB. (freaking-Bullshit)
BAD PART = the openness of people may lead to being vulnerable . #Do secure Browsing ppl

I would like to mention about the “level of distraction” this social topology has brought inn and the very harsh output its shooting.

WE are surrounded by N number of notifications from all over the environment to all the people living in it .Its not something that we would like to get involved to or share a helping hand its just that our curious mind wants to know each and everything around us. Its hardly a matter of minutes that the brain shuts down and thinks ..oww lets think

well there doesn’t seem a single min brain stops wandering . This will surely enough have the impact on the level of focus and attachment to a single cause. Like such brains cant do research work which requires immense focus, dedication and stability. And one day that quality called stability & dedication will be extinct from human beings , we will be lost into nowhere..!!

An Idiot, placements and IntervYOU Toffee engineering ….A book review.

This story is again brought to you by an engineer to the huge indian student group with a package of fun,love,knowledge and  lessons that no one will teach you after you step into your professional life

The author here is an engineering student who is an average “just like us” student who till his initial engg years wasn’t that much serious about his future prospect but in his final years he took it seriously and got placed in his dream company. This book goes through all his important experiences Do’s and Dont’s for fresher passouts looking for job.

After reading so many nice,wow,entertaining,enthralling and what not books, I came across this one and as a matter of fact I think i have added a new genre of book in my “have read” list.

This book has all the small ingredients that would just not let you get out of your comforting couch.It’s a good compilation of some very general questions that are mostly asked in aptitude tests and interviews.The tips and tricks, Do’s and Don’ts , points to remember are really helpful. This book is different from others i would rather say this book has the qualities of an all-round development plus funtainment book .its not just about enjoying stuffs but also sharing some very in-depth ,invaluable knowledge which till now has remained untold in most of the cases .it explores the untouched corners that lifts it apart from the book-shelf

As this book is about engineering FUN is mandatory and fortunately or unfortunately watever is considered I too belong to the same fraternity and i totally agree with the author.This book left a touch on me as even i was among the unfortunate ones who couldn’t grab a job on-campus and there were a lot more reasons for this, some of them were weak TPO, University CG-PA  is usually less than other universities. After going through a struggle period of almost two months finally landed up in a job of my choice.

Some of the things that i would like  to share as a struggler 😦

1. At time you might feel completely depressed, demotivated and tired by all the attempts you made and got rejected but all i would say is that keep trying and wait for that perfect moment, you might wonder when exactly does that “perfect moment” knocks your door. Don’t worry it will knock
2. Be patient
3. Believe in Yourself
4. When you feel low just try recollecting life’s sweetest moments. 😀 they heal and help

No one gives you the much needed corporate world understanding. In college things are constrained to syllabus so i would say this is a book that definitely requires a read by engineering student..**A must**. You definitely have something to gain from this book , A real word experience i would say.

If not 100% I’m sure 70% of the material will really impact your life in some or the other way. If you are looking for a job I would say keep a peaceful mind and go through it once.

I wish the author Taufeeq Ahmed great endeavours in the future and congratulate him for writing such a wonderful book and sharing his experiences,Knowledge with us.

personal rating: 3.8/5

Here’s Lewis Hamilton “with me” to set the indian track on fire ..!!

I know that  sound’s … like OMG ..”with me” part may sound dramatic but trust me the news is true, speed-freaks just can’t afford to miss this chance… n tell u wat I am Inn…. yess indiblogger people have again  given their bloggers a dream chance to meet ,talk and go on a adrenaline-rush-race with the F1 racing star.Nevertheless Indi-blogger’s always rock, and who knows u’ll see me sharing the racing seat with Lewis Hamilton but u won’t as the speed won’t be anything less than mind-sweepingly high. You’ll only get to watch the road’s set on fire . Hell yeah i m so damn excited to do this !!

Zindagi Milegi na Dobaara 😛

alexa